A Lack of Respect for Discussions and Health
Saturday, April 3, 2010 at 2:26AM Earlier this week Florida Urologist Dr. Jack Cassell placed this sign on the front door of his medical practice,
IF YOU VOTED FOR OBAMA...
SEEK UROLOGIC CARE
ELSEWHERE
CHANGES TO YOUR HEALTHCARE
BEGIN RIGHT NOW,
NOT IN FOUR YEARS
This sign has obviously resulted in Dr. Cassell losing some patients, but Dr. Cassell expected this result. The thought of losing patients is not a major concern, and that is very interesting. Dr. Cassell would prefer to feel correct concerning the present health care debate, and most likely see fewer patients compared to having the same opinions, seeing his current amount of patients, and not posting an unwelcoming sign on his front door. Dr. Cassell values his right to disrespectfully flaunt his opinion over his ability to improve the lives of others. By living in a free society we all have the right to be a jerk, but at some point we should see that the right to be a jerk is only one of the many freedoms that a free society allows. Eventually, people should see the benefit of exercising the freedoms that actually benefit others instead of offend.
However, the problem with this sign should not be simplified by saying that Dr. Cassell is a bad or inconsiderate person. Instead I think this sign represents a growing lack of respect amongst people in our society. More and more we hear discussions where neither side is willing to budge on any issue. The thought of entertaining the idea that your opposition may have aspects of their opinion that brings value to the discussion is quickly disappearing. Learning from others is quickly being replaced with forming your own opinion and then informing the people that have differing opinions that they are not wanted. A respect for others and their opinions has quickly been replaced with a respect for your own opinion and the opinions of those who have the same opinion as yourself. In this society discussions have become pointless because the opinions of others have now become meaningless. Only your opinion matters, and frankly that is a horrible way to live.
I would hate to live in an environment where only my opinion mattered, and it became impossible for me to learn from others. I would digress as a person, and there would be countless aspects of life that I would miss. I would loath the day when everyone I associated with shared the same opinions. There would be nothing to gain, but the reassurance of my previously established opinion. I would quickly become the Emperor in "The Emperor's New Clothes" who needs the guidance of a child to learn that I am parading around in public in the nude. The simple idea of being respectful to others would have been replaced with being respectful to only those who I approve. Eventually, the amount of people I would approve would decrease, and now I would inadvertently behave rudely to countless numbers of unsuspecting people while at the same time making a fool of myself. This is what American society is becoming.
Dr. Cassell, members of the Tea Party, protesters who bring guns to rallies, pundits on Fox News, and people who ram their cars into other cars with Obama bumper stickers show an amazing amount of disrespect for the common good of the people. They sour discussions by not answering questions, yelling insulting remarks at Congressmen, and giving derogatory names to significant pieces of legislation. Dr. Cassell in interviews refers to this recent health care bill as Obamacare, and he does not do this as a joke. He calls it Obamacare because all the people who share his opinion call it this. I do not think he is trying to be disrespectful, but instead has lost sight of what constitutes respectful. He feels that it is ok to recommend that people with differing opinions see another physician. Their care will now be separate, but equal. He is not denying care, but at some point another individual may. That person may not be a doctor, but instead a banker, a restaurant owner, or even a school. I have no idea where actions like Dr. Cassell's might lead, but I do know that if you do not try to respect the views of others your actions are less likely to be positive.
In present day America the value of sharing and discussion viewpoints disappears more and more with each passing day. As this occurs we inevitably develop drastically different values. One viewpoint has one set of values and these values cannot interact with other values. We get caught up in a game of formulating viewpoints and values instead of living a good life. Eventually, at one point people will start to value viewpoints over the quality of life. Dr. Cassell's sign represented this sad reality to me.
Below is a clip from the local news coverage of Dr. Cassell's sign. Interestingly, you will see at the end of the clip a majority of Floridians feel as though Dr. Cassell did the right thing by posting this sign on his door.
For more clips from Dr. Cassell's interview visit My Fox Orlando







